Monday, 7 May 2012

Menghargai. Penghargaan. Dihargai...

Asalam wbt..
well, today I'm gonna talk about *drumrolls~~~* *sila lihat tajuk* kehkeh..
hm, macam mana nak menghargai org? or mcm mana nak bagi penghargaan kat org? or mcm mana nak buat org lain rasa dihargai? hmm hmm hmm..


senang. ingat tarikh2 penting. birthday ke, hari ibu ke, hari bapa ke, hari pekerja ke, x kisah lah hari apa sekalipun, ringan2 kan mulut anda mengucapkan selamat.. well, even a simple 'happy ________' can make people happy (:


or even u can text/call/whatsapp/bbm/tweet the person u care, your families & friends, simply by saying 'Asalam. hey there, how are u doing?' ataupun, 'Asalam.. please take care' pun dah kira okay.. at least they know that u still remember them and appreciate them as families / friends..


to those living in the hostel (university), if the administration allows u to cook, why don't sometimes u spend a bit of your time to cook for your friends, or even cook together with your friends.. seriously seronok.. but then make sure focus memasak tu ada, jgn sampai borak2 pastu hangus apa yg di masak :P 


speak well manners. the way you speak to people symbolizes who u really are.. mcm mana nak kaitkan the way of speaking dengan penghargaan ni? (:
well, if u speak politely, for sure org lain sejuk hati, and secara x langsung they feel appreciated.. cuba fikir, kalau anda bercakap dgn org mcm anda nak gaduh. xke org tu kecik hati? hmm hmm..
so the point is, x kisah laa apa pun pangkat anda, setinggi mana pun pengetahuan anda, sehebat mana pun anda, cakap lah elok2 dengan org sekeliling.. tua, muda, kaya, miskin, semua ada hak masing-masing untuk dihormati. it will not be a loss for u to do that, instead, they too will highly appreciate u and respect u as well (:


presents. (my fav part). hikhik. nak bagi hadiah, x semestinya dgn pakwe makwe je. parents, kawan2, cikgu, akak usrah, usrah siblings etc etc etc pun kita boleh bagi hadiah.. remember, hadiah x semestinya mahal, tapi biarlah bermakna.. even a single du'a is considered as a present from us to others.. yg penting hati kena ikhlas.. speaking of this, ask yourself, who are the Muslims which are really in need of some presents from us right now?


them...


the people of beloved Palestine...

the people of beloved Syria...

...and in some other countries in the world. yes people. they need our du'as.. please. spend even just two minutes after our solah to ask ALLAH SWT to make them strong, to protect them, to lighten their burden, to give them the spirit of defending their rights without despair etc etc etc... insyaALLAH TA'ALA, although some of us assume that we can't help them directly, our du'as will surely give shines to their life, and of course, they will feel very appreciated by us.

dear everyone,
in Islam, each and everyone of us are considered as brothers and sisters. appreciate each other, as the value of ukhuwah is far more expensive than anything else in the world...

That's all for now, nak siap2 pergi swimming. muehehe..
take care dear people.

lots of love,
Syarifah Ella. 

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